Be an outlier in a world of conformists.

“Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth.” ― John F. Kennedy

Members of society that have been successfully conditioned, conform. They resign themselves, lose themselves, and succumb to sameness, uniformity – homogeneity. Groomed to follow. Conditioned to conform. Programmed to please, consume, and accept the status quo. Taught to be submissive, follow orders, and obey authority. Operating on auto-pilot as cogs in the rat race wheel greased by the desire to fit in, while begging to be accepted. Miserable, empty, stagnant, and stuck. As a result, they become reliant on the very system that oppresses, controls, and abuses them and the masses.

“One believes things because one has been conditioned to believe them.” ― Aldous Huxley
Conformity is the contrary to uniqueness, individuality, expressing your authentic self, and being empowered. Is it much easier and convenient to conform than to identify with who you really are than eject yourself from a system built on manipulation and illusion?

 

“The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it’s conformity.” ― Rollo May
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More “conformity” definitions:
  • Similarity in form or character; agreement.
  • Action or behavior in correspondence with socially accepted standards, conventions, rules, or laws: conformity to university regulations.
  • State of things being similar, or identical.
  • A point of resemblance; a similarity.
  • The ideology of adhering to one standard or social uniformity.
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More “conditioned” definitions:
  • Subject to or dependent on a condition or conditions.
  • Prepared for a specific action or process.
  • Psychology – Exhibiting or trained to exhibit a conditioned response.
  • Prepared for a specific use.
  • Exhibiting a conditioned reflex.
“A fair and just society offers equality of opportunity to all. But it cannot promise, and should not try to enforce, sameness.” ― Christina Hoff Sommers
Who benefits from a society of homogenous thinkers? Those in power, the ruling class, including bureaucratic, religious, military, and big business leaders. The power elite – “powerful people who hold a disproportionate amount of wealth, privilege, political power, or skill in society.” These power-players influence policy decisions with their actions, opinions, and actions.

 

Why would those in power want the populace to be conditioned and uniform?

 

How do they benefit from a society of conformists and followers?
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Conditioned clones are far easier to control. Literal crowd control mentality. Through this regulation of control, there is a false sense of security and perceived independence by those who conform and follow. It’s much easier to control a group with collectively similar beliefs, patterns, and behaviors, than it is to allow dissenters and resisters.

 

But what really happens when dissenters break out and challenge authority? Question the official narratives? Speak against those in power and the ideologies they push? They are often silenced, outcast, censored, called conspiracy theorists or crazy, denied being accepted, marginalized, and certainly not given corporate-owned media coverage and airtime.

 

How does the ruling class and the power elite condition?

 

Through the mass media’s repetition on television, radio, print and social media. Through the illusion of “choice” of media outlets and channels — when in fact they are owned by a select few, — only five to six media conglomerates in the United States. The grooming, brainwashing of what’s accepted is also embedded within society, culture, institutions, schools, and government. Expectations are carefully scripted within narratives and deliberately woven. Roles and desired behaviors, deliberately constructed. The conditioning becomes seamless, stealth, and unnoticeable, like the fish in water, “what water?”

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Through the power of language, conditioning is implemented. Language and connotations influence minds, behaviors, perceptions, beliefs, and actions. Both the choice of language and connotations play a significant role in scripting what’s acceptable. To deviate from the “norm” and the noun, “social deviate, are often given negative connotations. A “rebel”, “rebellion”, and “to rebel”, also hold a negative charge in the context of what’s acceptable and preferred within society. The same holds true for “activists”, those who are “anti-establishment”, “radical”, and “counter-culture”. Many of these condescending and shaming terms are often synonymous with traitor, instead of being aligned with catalysts for change.

 

An outlier, a rebel, and a renegade do not exist within the limits; they break the boundaries and the norm. It’s the only way to survive from being swallowed up and engulfed by mediocrity. A rebel goes against the grain and prefers not to be corralled. Does what’s not popular and lives beyond the dominant culture ideals.

Rebel

  • To refuse allegiance to and oppose by force an established government or ruling authority.
  • To resist or defy an authority or a generally accepted convention.
  • To feel or express strong unwillingness or repugnance.

Renegade

  • One who rejects a religion, cause, allegiance, or group for another; a deserter.
  • An outlaw; a rebel.
  • Of, relating to, or resembling a renegade; traitorous.
  • To become a deserter or an outlaw.
  • A disloyal person who betrays or deserts his cause, religion, political party, friend, etc.
  • A common vagabond; a worthless or wicked fellow.
  • break with established customs

 

  • One whose domicile lies at an appreciable distance from his or her place of business.
  • A value far from most others in a set of data: “Outliers make statistical analyses difficult” (Harvey Motulsky).
  • Geology A portion of stratified rock separated from a main formation by erosion.

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Be an outlier in a world of conformists.

 

Snap out of the endless brainwashing machine spin-cycle. Stop rinsing your brain with their waterboarded indoctrination. Deviate from the clones and drones, the conditioned sameness, uniformity, and conformity. Outliers spawn originality. Innovative ideas emerge on the edges. These ideas live outside the box and beyond the lines of control and societal boundaries.

Thinking Outside The Box

Revel in your independence and uniqueness. Discover who you are and not who you “should be” according to their “conditions” and “program”. Take personal inventory of where you conform and where you rest on the ledge as an outlier. Time to break out of the conditioning and the programs you’ve been trained to believe. Break up with this dysfunctional conditioned fantasy. The act of rebellion challenges the system, disrupts conventional thinking, and is a catalyst for growth and change.

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson

Will you be the aberration? Are you willing to take a risk and step out of the crowd, the herd, and the herd mentality? It’s time for each of us to be the outlier in a world of conformists. It’s time to detach from the the status quo, the puppet strings, and be bold enough to walk on our own towards an improved reality that we co-create.

white crow among black crowsWhat possibilities exist outside the bounds of conformity?

Let’s pioneer this together and build something different ― outside the boundaries.

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~ Melissa A. Curtin

Are you programmed to fall in line and obey?

From an early age, as a culture, we are heavily programmed to fall in line and surrender to the hegemonic systems that gain from our obedience. From commercial advertising to television and radio programs, films, music, entertainment, video games, podcasts, social media platforms, and any other consumable media, including newspapers, magazine, and books. We are conditioned and taught early on not only what to think, but what to think about.

The owners and controllers of such media call it a TV “program” for a reason. This extends across digital and analog program content across a variety of forms. It’s the literal programming of your brain, the wiring and re-wiring of your neurosynapses and your thought patterns.

This “program” is intended to inform the decisions about who you are and what to believe, who to admire, who to fear, who to love, who to blame, what to buy, who to vote for, who to shun — shaping and guiding you along the way. The repetitive, perpetual programming of beliefs, ideas, behaviors, preferred actions, choices, wants, needs, desires, dreams, self-identity, lifestyle, sexuality, what is feminine or masculine, what is culturally and socially acceptable, and the endless list of “programs” and orders to follow, obey, and adopt.

obeykidtvWe are rarely encouraged to question authority, challenge the status quo, or dare we be empowered enough to question the system itself and the foundation it stands. Critical thinking is an essential skill that desperately needs to be exercised often to counterbalance the fear-mongering, the propaganda, and the corporate-owned script and “prescription” of the pre-constructed ideas they want to instill, ingrain, and frame in your brain. Their psychological tactics of brainwashing and the cleaning out of your own identity and self, through their deliberately pushed and highly crafted messaging — is not an accident or from a place of naivety. Obedience, and directing the narrative to shape their agenda that greedily lines their pockets and audience/society/crowd control — is their goal.

Propaganda Word Cloud on a black background.What you tune in to and allow is your choice if you can maintain your individuality amongst the sea of conformity, brainwashing, and scripted narratives. Critically thinking, reflecting, and taking personal inventory of what to prioritize takes being proactive and awake. This means taking ownership of your media consumption and being astute to mass media motives. It also takes initiative to be an active discerning information seeker and independent thinker, instead of a repeater and parroter of the popular or mainstream corporate-influenced scripted narrative to comply, buy, consume, obey, conform, and repeat.

Individuality SymbolRecognize where the media content is originating from and where you are paying with your attention and precious time. Notice where you are being pitched and sold to the highest bidder in this slick game of clicks, likes, follows, and eyeballs.

Not all media consumed is destructive, full of coercion, or perpetuates a broader agenda to comply, fall in line, or obey. Yet, it is all constructed and carefully designed for a targeted demographic, viewer/reader, and user. Know the sources of your information, follow the money, and discover who owns the media to which you subscribe. Dissect, deconstruct, and decode the offered messages, and become media literate and savvy.

How you consciously navigate through the landfill of Machiavellian media is up to you. Will you be a free-thinker capable of critical thought and independent of the programmed commands? Or have you already succumbed and surrendered to the “obey” modus operandi and isn’t it time to course correct and deprogram?

Fall in line or align to your independence and soar.

Independent Thinker

It’s your choice.

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~ Melissa A. Curtin

Censored on social media?

Frustrated with social media network censorship and oppression? Step into a new paradigm with Medel.la!

Social media platforms are today’s equivalent of a public forum or virtual town square where the public and citizens should freely be able to exchange ideas, information, interact with public officials, hold businesses accountable, question authority, provide feedback, insight, suggestions, and even call out governmental organizations.

Wouldn’t that be exceptional and expected? However, that is not the current state of social media outlets and the militarized way they police, chastise, and corral users’ content and dialogue.

Today’s censored mediated culture suppresses those who speak out, speak up, and challenge the status quo, the old and antiquated paradigm, and anything and everything that is not the preferred mainstream narrative construction and scripted story.

Silenced. Censored. Banned. Removal of posts. Prevention of boosting posts. Removal of boards on Pinterest. Disabling of Instagram accounts that don’t follow “Terms of use.” Suspension of Twitter accounts. Conveniently changing Facebook algorithms to deter content sharing. Punishment in FaceBook jail for posting articles, information, or views that are counter culture or dare reveal cracks and slivers of truth about the system. Sound familiar?

socialmediaDissenting views are not permitted in this delusion of freedom and illusion of free speech in a public forum that is privately owned. FaceBook is not the only culprit; Pinterest unapologetically censors and removes health information and any “misinformation” campaigns or non traditional medical advice it disagrees with. Perhaps their stakeholders’ goal is to slow down and cripple those who challenge the controlled opinion. Shut them down. Disallow their exchange of information, their organizing, their movement gaining momentum, their power. Disempower by taking away their voice. Our voices. Your voice. Not giving airtime for anyone outside the box or on the fringe to reach or engage a larger audience.

freedomAre you tolerating the censorship or ready to move on into a new paradigm?

Whether you express disgust, disdain, or you’re just fed up with the controlled narrative and challenge it by asking questions and critically thinking. Or you’ve simply reached your saturation point of social media platforms controlling dissent and barring the information you share…

A Safer Uncensored Content Sharing Solution Exists

The comfort in knowing that what you choose to upload, save, file, organize, and share, remains your content and will not be censored. A curated health wisdom platform where you, the user, decides your privacy, chooses how you’d like to save it, disseminate it, and to whom. No advertising. No worrying if you violated some arbitrary “community standard” or fear about illuminating controversial topics, issues, and areas of concern. Freedom to express yourself. Freedom to be yourself. A free place to store data, catalog content, articles, research, photos/videos, memes, facts, statistics, case studies, stories, collaborate, and connect with others in a meaningful way about what matters.

Leveraging information and building upon what is curated, so that you can be empowered to use that content and act. Through action and an empowered citizenry, we break out of the system and create something better. A new paradigm to share and rise up through the oppression of censorship.

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~ Melissa A. Curtin